Easy comes, easy goes

How easy is to get rid of people! We have socks sometimes older than our current relationship. Everything is done in a constant run towards total happiness and when somebody does not match, we leave him/her behind without trying to adjust or to change something in that person.

And why should we adjust, as time is so limited and we are, usually, perfect. But perfection in our eyes sometimes is mere average in the eyes of somebody else. And this is hard to accept. Better we ditch that person and move on to the next one who will build us a statue.

By doing this, we just perpetuate the average and we refuse evolution, although in our mind we call this evolution. But starting over and over the same thing is eroding our capability to evolve. Just imagine that Egyptians would start to build the first 2-3 layers of the Great Pyramids and then tear them down. Then start again a few tens of times. Would we have nowadays the single World Wonder in Egypt?

I feel pity for those who burn everything around them, for the fear of not being burned themselves. It better to run than being disappointed, they say. But what if something great would arise if you stay?

No limits

Everything and everybody has limits. Some are imposed by nature’s laws, some self imposed by humans. Most of us will be very happy to know where a boundary is set so that actions, feelings, thoughts to be carefully weighted within these limits.

There are also people that will continuously try to break barriers, to be better than parents or the friend next to them, unhappy of how some stuff works. Imagine how our world would have looked like without engines, electricity, iPhones. You can easily skip the later from your absolute need to have things in life.

Sex makes no exception. There are a lot of people very pleased to have that Saturday afternoon sex that will keep them alive for another week. Let tick this too on our checklist for the week.

There are also a few, for who sex is as naturals as breathing. Is it not normal to breath loudly, rapidly, slowly, harder, deeper, with 2-3 people, along with women, men?…and the list is very long.

I tried almost everything in this regards, except for men. I cannot find an attraction to this part of sex. I’ve been with 2 women and loved it, I’ve been watched by others while makings sex, I fucked the same woman with another guy, I’ve had sex in parks, cars, mountains, beaches, restaurants, planes. Where there is pleasure, the limits are worthless, far from natural.

Always be ready for the next best thing in your sex life. As Mae West would say “between 2 evils, I always pick the one I never tried before”. The best experiences that I had were the ones where I would totally jump head forward into the love whirlpool, not thinking about any consequences that may arise, if we should go to her place of mine, if somebody is watching us when my hand gently slips within her legs to feel her warm, gentle pussy.

“What are you thinking about”, she asked. “I am thinking if I can kiss you”, I replied. “Why do you need to think?” she said with a devilish smile that ignited the night and led to one of the best experiences I ever had. The whole world was at our feet. We did not see any humans around us, there was only me and her until we reach heaven 2 hours later at my place.

She had no sexual limits and she was one of the most extroverted women I ever met. There were though some limits that she imposed to herself, ones that nobody should imposed to oneself. There were love and feelings limits. She had her special rules to refrain herself from feelings, from reaching the ultimate pleasure a human can hope to have. “Don’t meet a guy more than 2 times or you’ll fall in love”, “don’t have 2 relationships at the same time, or you will get hurt”.

“Limits, like fear, are often an illusion” (Michael Jordan). Could she ever get passed illusions?